Wanting something to change in one area of your life but unsure of how to get there?
At the moment, there's something I want that I haven't been able to make happen. I keep thinking to myself that I should be able to work it out, that I should know what to do next, and that maybe tomorrow I will get some clarity.
A little voice inside says: maybe you need someone to help you. But I keep thinking I should be able to work it out on my own...
Then I go back to what I want and I know it is a matter of wanting the result enough NOW and committing fully to making it happen.
So, let me ask you – Are you ready to get unstuck now?
Because if you want the outcomes you say you want, then NOW is the time to take action. Not when you feel ready. Not when you know how. Not when you have the money available. Or the time. Or the motivation. Because let's be honest, there is no such thing as the perfect time EVER.
And you do it because you want to create something different from what your current actions have allowed you to create. Let's take a bit of responsibility here ;)
I became honest with myself and there are a couple of things I want that I do not want enough now, nor am I willing to do the changes I need to make. But there is that initial goal I mentioned, that I do want now! and I am ready to do whatever it takes to make it happen.
I also stopped being proud thinking I should know how to work it out on my own. I reached out to one of my coaches, got a few sessions to get my strategy and knowledge where they needed to be and Voila!! I am on my way to achieving it.
As human beings we need accountability and we are not meant to be perfect and to know it all. Getting help and guidance is the easiest way to achieve your goals. This really applies to all areas of our lives.
I hope this little reminder has inspired you to be honest with the thing you have been complaining about and how much you are actually ready to make the changes that need to happen.
To getting unstuck!
Lots of love,
Alba Gomez is a presence and personal brand coach, keynote speaker, first impressions specialist and professional image consultant. Born in Colombia and based in Australia, she travels nationally and internationally for speaking, executive coaching, consulting and training.
Alba works with individuals and small groups right through to large corporations. She brings her client’s brand into line with their personal and professional roles, giving them the clarity and confidence to communicate and be their best. Alba uses a unique, results-orientated approach, drawing on her 14 years of experience with systems and processes as an engineer.
