Being a charismatic person doesn't mean that you have to be an extrovert. And it does not mean you have to change who you are.
You do not need to be the loudest person in the room either.
Being magnetic is more about sharing more of who you are and worrying less about what others will think about you.
Because while you are trying to 'be perfect' or 'getting it right', you are editing so much of what you say, how you say it, or overthinking, that you lose your ability to be charismatic.
Charisma is defined as your ability to influence through relationships. It actually comes down to how you communicate.
The great news here is that the best communicators are the best listeners. So it all starts by shifting your energy outwardly. Not so much worrying about what you say, but more about being in the present listening to what the other person has to say. Asking questions and showing genuine interest is one of the most charismatic traits a person can have.
I am incredibly passionate about this topic and in today's episode of Amplify, I am sharing more about this concept. I am also sharing some simple steps to increase your ability to be more magnetic and memorable for the right reasons.
You can listen to the new episode on Spotify, Google podcast or Apple Podcast. Or you can also watch them on YouTube
The episodes are short and right to the point with some practical tools you can implement straight away.
To becoming your most charismatic self!
Lots of love,
Alba Gomez is a presence and personal brand coach, keynote speaker, first impressions specialist and professional image consultant. Born in Colombia and based in Australia, she travels nationally and internationally for speaking, executive coaching, consulting and training.
Alba works with individuals and small groups right through to large corporations. She brings her client’s brand into line with their personal and professional roles, giving them the clarity and confidence to communicate and be their best. Alba uses a unique, results-orientated approach, drawing on her 14 years of experience with systems and processes as an engineer.
